My favorite food growing up: Pizza. A personal pan pizza from Pizza Hut. I also appreciated the other pieces of international flair in rotation: cheese quesadillas and, sometimes, hard-shell ground-beef tacos. Plus: cheeseburgers, grilled cheese with watery tomato soup, and fried chicken (KFC Extra Crispy, only). The only acceptable drink: Coca-Cola. Breakfast, lunch, and dinner. As a snack and on the bedside table at night. I don’t know how my body survived childhood. My taste buds nearly didn’t. But once I stopped drowning everything in sugar, salt, and fat, food came alive. I could actually taste what I was eating. Nature’s long cultivation of sweetness in an heirloom tomato, so unlike the watery blandness sold to us as “tomato.” The subtle delicacy of a white peach or piece of sashimi. The deluge of flavors in a good mole, banh mi, or tom yum. Even broccoli has a tinge of sweetness. And when I stop drowning life in layers of concepts and judgments, I can taste life. The bitter is not so bad. I can appreciate a good sour. Sometimes, I even find life sweet.
Title borrowed from “Salt Then Sour Then Sweet” by Sara Bareilles, Brandi Carlile and Andrea Gibson.
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Really great turn of phrase here—or even turn of article. I thought you were doing one way and then swerved another. Cool piece.
I love this. That broccoli has a hint of sweetness is so dang true. Taste coming alive after a fast from the sugars and salts, so true. Feasting on life without judgement, and tasting it, really tasting it. Yes. You've got my yes. <3